Although it appeared for a while that my pulling the ‘big C’ card had made the guy back off – after a few days I started getting the odd “heya”s and “how are u?”s. I ignored all of them although the one he sent two weekends ago that said “hi beautiful” had me and OH in hysterics as at the time I got it I was in bed with the flu, looking sick with my flannelette pjs on – only one boob and without my top partial dental plate in (i.e. missing my four front teeth). I was tempted to send him a pxt of just how unbeautiful I was at that particular point in time but didnt want a photo of me out there looking like that.
I had hoped by continuing to ignore he would eventually lose interest and get bored enough to leave me alone. However this last week he sent me a more explicit text that I am not going to repeat on here and I thought I can ignore the “heya”s and the “how are u” and the “good mornings” but I do not want to look at my phone and read stuff like that so I rung my cell phone provider and got them to deal with it – they have given him a warning and if he continues to get in touch with me they will report him to the police and disconnect him.
All in all this has been a very weird experience and has made me realise there are some very sad people out there.