I haven’t updated the blog for a few days -when I started feeling better I started to go out more and yesterday it caught up with me so I had a PJ day yesterday. Feeling 100% better today for having had the rest.
On Friday went out to have a blood test (to check my blood counts) do some errands and spent some time “annoying” my workmates. On Saturday OD and I went to the Craft market and I bought myself another couple of hats. We then went out for lunch and did grocery shopping. On Sunday it was Father’s Day and YD was home for the day. We took OH out for lunch and shopping. I bought another hat. later that day I recieved a gift from OD’s friends M&M which was another hat (purple and sparkley-thanks M&M) which meant my hat collection doubled in the space of two days. OH commented that he thought that I had enough hats. My response was that “A bald women can never have too many hats”.
MD’s boyfriend intake date for the army got moved up which means he got his haircut on Sunday. We’ve decided to call him “Soulja Boi” in this blog from now on. On Monday morning MD and I saw him off on the Army bus.
On Monday afternoon I had an appointment with the private breast clinic that I first went to to get diagnosed. This was a preliminary visit with a breast surgeon to see what my options are in a few months time. I will probably go privately for my breast surgery even though I am having my chemo and radiation in the public sector. The reason for this is that I need work done on my left side as well, which will probably not be able to be done under the public sector as it will be regarded as cosmetic rather than medical.
Those of you who know me know that I have rather large breasts. In the public system they would take off my right breast but do nothing to my left. As my right breast is never going to be reconstructed to a G cup (shock horror – now you know!!) I need to have my left breast reduced. – I’m thinking a nice C-D cup. My right breast won’t get reconstructed straight away, with IBC (Inflammatory Breast Cancer) they recommend waiting for at least two years. I may decide to remain right side flat for the rest of my life and just use prosthesis for illusionary purposes. I am glad I had this appointment because it means it gives me time to think about what I really want in the way of surgery rather than having to make snap decisions in a few months time.
As you can see I had a pretty busy few days. In hindsight I probably shouldn’t have done quite as much and yesterday I deliberately stayed in my PJs so that I would stay at home and not do anything. I had a bit of a nagging cough – probably from getting wet seeing Soulja Boi off on Monday. I feel much better today and am glad I sat playing computer games on the couch yesterday.
I am about to go out for my usual weekly afternoon tea with YD so Cheers